Thursday, April 21, 2016

GOOD DAYS

Immersed as we are in the familiar routines of ordinary life, it is easy for us to lose the sense of wonder that we had as children.  Each fresh morning is a new birth filled with bright possibilities.
 
I ask myself, will I make my day a rerun of my yesterdays?  Or, will I see, with clean sight, the chances that are open to me?   Will I see the possibilities?

If yesterday was delicious, I might follow a similar path and set up a version of yesterday that I can enjoy today.  But, I don’t need to be locked into a version of yesterday unless I want to be.  I might have commitments like a job or family ties that seen to lay out the skeleton of my day but the flesh of it, the tone of it, the flavor of it, comes out of my attitudes and expectations.  I get to choose those.

It’s all about choice and choice is about thoughts.  One important thing about thoughts is that I can change them.  They are more or less under my control.  I can contradict a bad-feeling thought by internally changing the subject or I can reward a good-feeling thought by paying attention to it and approving of it.  I need to be noticing what I’m feeling/thinking to be able to do this.  The key is attention.  I need to be focused.  That means that I need to be awake to my feelings in the moment. 

It is true that one thought leads to another.  It is also true that any thought will lead to another that is like itself.  I can enjoy an ascending series of good-feeling thoughts or a descending cascade of miseries depending on my starting thought and my reaction to it. That’s my choice.

Every moment can be a new start.

The best place to start is with gratitude.  If I begin my fresh new moment by saying and feeling “thank you” for good things in my life, I will kick off a positive chain reaction.  This attention to good things will allow me to notice other good-feeling opportunities that I can act on to keep my energy flowing in the right direction.

The better it gets, the better it can get.  The opposite is also true.

We are all chain-thinkers.  We run on habit.  If we take the trouble to redirect our thoughts toward good-feeling ones enough times, this pattern will become our habit.

While our best alternative is to be alert, alive and fully present in every moment, the habit of choosing good-feeling thoughts is a pretty good second choice.

8 comments:

  1. DEF: PONG---A packet replying to a ping thereby indicating the presence of a host.

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  2. My god feeling action based on my good feeling thought is to deal with my fellow human being without initiating the use of force. In my personal actions this is not difficult. Avoiding participation in the legized initation of force is more challanging.
    I acknowledge that participating in the use of legal force in my dealings with others is to my spiritual detriment and I avoid it when I can. It doesn't matter to me if the force is illegal or legally sanctioned, only that it is the initiation of force. This is my good thought, to deal with others only on a voluntary basis.

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    1. This is a sound foundation for interaction with all beings. (First, do no harm.) But, it is only the floor upon which loving kindness can be built. True heartfelt cooperation is the spirit which builds worlds. Together, there is no limit to what we can create if we build it in the spirit of oneness.

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  3. YES ! YES ! YES ? Tis indeed the floor of kindness and the spirit of oneness that must be protected and nurtured. We have in large part solved the problem of the initiation of the use of personal force by inventing government designed to take the use of force out of the hands of the individual. It is now time to solve the problem of the initiation of the use of IMPERSONAL FORCE, Which is force initiated by the use of government.

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  4. The initiation of IMPERSONAL FORCE, through the use of government is an unworkable strategy because it disrupts the flow of the river of commerce. The river of commerce is the free choices that we make when dealing with one another. When I say " River of Commerce", please think ," Free Choice"

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  5. The creation of government created the concept of the illegal use of force

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  7. Application of force in harmony.
    Application of force in violence.

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